Couple's 14-Year Habit of Husband's Disappearances Revealed on 'Marriage Hell'

The couple known as the 'Acting Couple' appeared on the MBC program 'Oh Eun Young's Report - Marriage Hell' (abbreviated as 'Marriage Hell'), revealing the husband's repeated disappearances for 14 years.

During the episode aired on the 3rd, the wife shared her agonizing experience of waiting anxiously for her husband who habitually leaves home. The husband's disappearances began in their newlywed phase and have continued relentlessly for 14 years, sometimes lasting over a month and even resulting in him being brought home by police while heavily intoxicated.

The husband, who works in plumbing and demolition, admitted to relieving stress by drinking with colleagues after exhausting workdays, a habit that escalated into overnight stays away from home. He shockingly confessed, 'I'd leave saying 'Go to hell X'', creating a stunned silence in the studio. He also revealed a family history of alcohol problems, prompting Dr. Oh Eun Young to diagnose potential genetic alcohol use disorder and strongly advise complete abstinence.

Dr. Oh also pointed out the wife's communication style as a contributing factor. While acknowledging her distress, she noted that the wife's tendency to constantly interrogate and blame the husband made constructive dialogue difficult. She advised that the wife needed to be more patient, considering the husband's slower response time.

The husband finally confessed the deeper reason behind his disappearances, stating that his wife's constant criticism made him feel like an subordinate. He expressed feelings of life being difficult and a desire to be alone without thinking for a few days. He even contemplated whether it would be better not to live if his disappearances continued.

Dr. Oh recommended the wife install a GPS tracking app with the husband's consent to alleviate her anxiety and possessiveness. For the husband, she advised seeking treatment for alcohol addiction. Facing the situation with a 'last chance' mindset, the couple, moved by their daughters' wish for a normal, happy life, sincerely reflected on their shortcomings. They ended the show by holding hands and pledging to change, leaving a profound impression on viewers.

Netizens expressed empathy, commenting, 'This feels so real,' and 'The communication issues Dr. Oh pointed out are crucial.' Many wished the couple success in their efforts to improve their relationship.